Re doing my bed room in East theme

I have stated that I wanted to redecorate my bedroom in east theme, which is true I do want to I just have to find all the right things for it now, I know that I can find good things on ebay and some in the stores as well. I hope that this dose not offend anyone but I want to put some Hindu god statues in my room to go along with Buddha! I love Sharell's sofa com bed I would like to put something at the end of my bed to store thing, I need to de clutter my clutter! HAHAHAH the photo the Sharell posted of how nice her living room looked for Diwali gave me more push to do my room in east theme that is good thing I'm even going to get rid of the horrible paneling in it and paint it nice color put some light, no I have not lost my mind. If anyone had any good Ideas what I can use for my east theme do let me know I'm open to ideas!

Questions people don't want to hear

Dose size of person really matter? Dose how big or small a person matter? Dose it matter if we are fat or skinny? Dose it matter if we are fat or skinny? Do we get treated differently because of this? Most people will avoid these question so not as to offend anyone or just don't want to face the truth about the answers some don't want to answer them for whatever reason but they know what their answer is though! To me the answer to all these question is YES how do I know the answer to these question is because I'm this person. some people will say that I'm in between but I will tell you that I'm this person THE FAT OVER WEIGHT PERSON that all or most of you like to stare at look at talk about make fun of! I know what some of you are say OMG I can't believe she just said that or is sharing this with people quick we need to shut the fatty up! WELL GUESS WHAT YOU ARE NOT GOING TO DO THAT NOT I'M SHARING MY LAP-BAND LIFE WITH THE WORLD AND EVERYONE WHAT LIFE HAS BEEN LIKE FOR ME BEFORE AND AFTER! I'm no longer going to hide this topic I'm openly talking about it to anyone because I have grown as person and learned that I talk about I might be able to help just maybe one person out there in the world, that is my hope maybe to help someone show others that you don't have to be ashamed, scared or whatever is that you may be feeling it's okay you are not alone. This was me me last year in December before I have my weight loss operation done on July 6.2009 I my weight then was 256 LBS yes I just shared how heavy I was, not that is not my heaviest, before you get to the next question was I happy I'm happy out going person but I was not fully happy I knew that I was making the right choice to have WLS done I knew then and I know now it's not quick fix but it's the right tool for me. No I'm not skinny right I am getting healthier though day by day, this is not easy road but I'm not sorry that I chose this road because getting WLS done has been opening so many doors for me that I never thought were possible for me. Now to answer those questions:

Dose size of person really matter?

A: In today's society yes it dose we base everything on weight and size we as Americans want everything bigger and better even out food which is not good, I think we need to take hit from our foreigner friends and start to cut our protons down eat more healthy exercise more and know that bigger is not always better. When we all look as people the first thing we all notice, is their size how big or small they are instead of noticing them as person or notice them just to say hello, me I no longer look as people by size but notice them as person someone can be skinny and be bad person or then can be huge person and be bad person it dose not matter. I think we need to stop looking at size and get to know one another after all we only get to life this life once who knows what the next will hold for us.

Dose how big or small a person matter?

A: To me it dose not matter if you are tall or short big or skinny but to the rest of society it dose matter, and it should not what should matter is how healthy we are!

Dose it matter if we are fat or skinny?

A: Simple answer is yes it dose just look at all the Ad's on Tv in magazine's then parents want to know why their children have eating problem. Also this can go for parents who just let their kids sit in front of tv hello let me go outside and play for while it will do them go outside play for while it will not hurt anyone in fact plan family days out

Do we get treated differently because of this?

A: I would like to say no this dose not happen but it dose happen we get treated differently most of the time it depends on where you are at.

I know that these answers are not shock to a lot of you and to some of you the truth hurts if this is the case sorry but it's so very true. I have even had people treat me differently because they know that I had WLS done and I have told them I'm the same person just changed little that is all their is just less of me and happier person that is all. I have learned so fair that it's just nice to get out of the house take walk or even take trip somewhere walk around see new thing etc. I want to walk one of the state park trails today but the weather was not on my side I was hoping to get some great photos but that will have to wait for another day. I have never let any of those questions ever stop me from doing anything that I ever wanted to do in life I'm just not the type of person.